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Tiva Spin-Off: NCIS’ OG Ship Are Getting Their Own Show!

Yes! That’s right – you heard me! Tony and Ziva are getting their own spinoff and I am practically vibrating with excitement! I know that if you’re reading this, the news has been out for a while – almost two months, but truthfully, it has taken me this long to process it; to gather my words into coherent sentences to explain exactly how I feel about this… and even then, I feel like the words that I write here cannot do justice to how overwhelmingly elated I am.

If you read my post back in January about my preliminary thoughts on NCIS: Origins, you’ll know that I have been a long time lover of the mothership for almost as long as it has been airing. For a large portion of my adolescence and teens, it was my favourite show, and I would sit down religiously every single week to witness my favourite crime-fighting, ass-kicking team in action. That was, until, the departure of Ziva David (Cote De Pablo), in season 11.

When Cote left NCIS, I was heartbroken. I had never been so deeply devastated by something before in my entire life, and I can only describe the depth of the despair and sadness I felt as something akin to grief. It’s hard when you build a sentimental and emotional attachment to a character, to have them suddenly ripped from your grasp, because it genuinely feels as though you’re saying goodbye to a friend or family member for the last time. You invite these characters into your homes for years, and the moment they are not there anymore, you certainly notice their absence. And this was the hardest television goodbye I had ever had to go through.

But, it wasn’t just Ziva David I was saying goodbye to. It also meant saying a very heavy farewell to the ‘ship’ called “Tiva” [Tony + Ziva]. If you’ve been a long-time fan of NCIS, then you’re probably very familiar with this duo and their magnetic energy, the sexual tension, longing looks from across the bullpen, jealousy, fights, and the two of them constantly teetering on the line of being just friends and something more. It’s a ship that I hopped on board with before I even knew that the term ‘shipping’ meant, and it’s one that I sailed, through hell and high water, for almost a decade. And the heartbreak of letting them go was equally as devastating.

As fans, all we ever wanted throughout the course of their run on the show together was for Tiva to be together, and by season 10 we were incredibly close to finally having our dreams come true. But, as anybody in the Tiva fandom will tell you: it felt like the writers hated us, and hated this ship. They couldn’t even consider the possibility of the two of them actually being together, and so just as they dangled the carrot, it was brutally ripped from our grasp. We were teased time and time again with these small moments of Tiva being in love but never truly admitting their feelings for one another… and just when we thought they would and the writers would finally allow them to cross that line, they did a complete 180.

[Note: The writers have claimed in the past that if Cote had stayed, Tiva would have happened eventually and that we ‘were not that far off from having it happen’, but truthfully, as a fandom, we found (and still find) this very hard to believe in. Our trauma and trust issues with these writers run deep.]

Then, of course, our dreams seemed entirely impossible. Because how can these two characters even get together when Ziva is no longer there? They gave us some heartbreakingly beautiful moments in “Past, Present, and Future,” and yet, after having waited eight years for this to happen, it just didn’t feel like enough. There was no true love confession. There was simply a kiss in the poorest lighting, to commemorate this moment.

Skip forward two years later, to the end of season 13. Michael Weatherly is leaving the show. The ‘Tony’ of Tiva was going for good… but of course, being Tiva fans, we held onto the small inch of hope that our dreams could still come true. And in some ways, they did. Tony and Ziva ended up with a daughter, Tali – confirmation that what we had always wanted to happen, happened! But, remember when I said that the writers hated us and hated the ship? Of course they had to add in a big screw you, by killing the character of Ziva (off-screen), to make the event of a reunion between Tony and Ziva virtually impossible. (But even impossible things come true sometimes…)

But still, though it seemed like the ship had sunk to the very bottom of the ocean, we held out the tiny wavering thread of possibility that someday, somehow, it might still happen. We dived deep into the plot holes, pulling apart everything that could possibly signal that they hadn’t completely betrayed us and the character. ‘Ziva loves Paris.’ (Emphasis on the present tense). No body, no crime. And most of all: Ziva would not have been that reckless. (If you’re a Ziva or Tiva fan, you know…)

And while this was somewhat remedied during Ziva’s return arc in season 17 – as it turns out she was in fact alive and in hiding, and not dead like most people had previously believed (everyone except us Tiva fans!), and ended with her reuniting off screen with Tony and Tali in Paris, we just wish there had been so much more. Because knowing is one thing. But seeing it with your own eyes, is another.

This yet-to-be-titled show is all we, as Tiva fans, have ever wanted and more. It has been eleven years since we last saw them on screen together, and we have ached for this moment ever since. Even in January’s post, I mentioned how if I had things my way, Tiva would get a spinoff of their own! (I’m actually sitting here cackling with laughter, because little did I know what was going to be announced just over two months later… am I clairvoyant? Was it my Gibbs’ gut?)

To outsiders, this spinoff may seem unnecessary, or as though we are overly invested in it, but when two characters and their (at times, tragic), love story have been a part of you and shaped your life for nearly two decades, is there any other way to be? The purpose of this spinoff is not about the money. It’s not about being ‘relevant’ (but, for us Tiva fans, they always are…). It’s for the fans who have spent their lives loving and adoring this couple from the moment they appeared on screen, yearning for them to be together. (And the fact that it will be airing on Paramount+ rather than on prime time television also bodes extremely well for us, because of the greater possibilities they now have content-wise… spicy scenes and swearing? Is that on the horizon?!)

It doesn’t matter if others don’t understand how monumental of a moment this is for us. We know.

But, the thing that makes me vibrate with excitement even more than the idea of the spinoff, is the fact that it will be run by the captains of the ship – Michael Weatherly and Cote De Pablo. They are at the helm of the boat, steering Tiva’s journey out of the harbour. And, unlike the mothership writers, we have complete faith and trust in them and in the voyage upon which we are about to embark. They love the characters of Tony and Ziva as much as we do, and we have never been more certain that Tiva’s love story is in safe hands.


Ship: to take an interest in or hope for a romantic relationship between (fictional characters or famous people), whether or not the romance actually exists.

Photo: Richard Foreman/CBS/Getty Images

“The One With the Goodbye…”

It’s hard to know where to begin. This is not a post I thought I would be writing for many, many years, and yet, here we are.

On Sunday morning, I woke up to the news of Matthew Perry’s passing, and I cried, in a way that I haven’t cried over a celebrity’s death since Cory Monteith. Full-on snot-sobs. I am heartbroken and devastated, to say the least. Days later, and it still feels so surreal to me.

Mourning the passing of a famous person you love is a bizarre thing. You have no physical personal connection with them in the way that you do with your friends and family, and yet, you feel the grief as deeply as if you knew them intimately. It is as raw and as painful as losing a member of your own inner circle. But, it is a testament to the meaningful impact they have had on you through their work.

The first thing you are overwhelmed with is shock. For any death, even if you know it’s coming, it’s still shocking. As humans, we are not innately programmed to think about mortality, and it is sometimes a curse that we are the only sentient species on the planet that are aware of it. I think a lot of us see celebrities as being immortal, but the truth is, they are not. It is the one thing which we all share – the inability to escape our eventual demise. We do not ruminate on it during everyday life otherwise we would find it simply impossible to function. But, when it happens to someone we love and admire, our brain is confronted with reality, and it is startled because it spends the majority of its time shielding us from it. We feel the shock reverberate through our body – sometimes physically, as we end up hiccuping through our sobs, or a tightness in our chest when it feels like our heart is physically aching.

Hearing about Matty’s death shocked me to my core. And yet, there was a part of me that was not surprised. After all, if you read his memoir – Friends, Lovers, and The Big Terrible Thing – he had so many near misses with death that it genuinely made you wonder how it hadn’t happened sooner.

I listened to the audiobook version of his memoir last year and flew through it. It was heartbreaking, funny, and poignant – perhaps three words that best sum up Matthew Perry. For somebody who found so much joy and purpose in trying to make others laugh, he battled some dark, dark demons. He spent decades struggling with an addiction to alcohol and substances, and as a result, his body succumbed to real wear and tear.

In 2019, at the age of 49, he nearly died from a burst colon – the result of his overuse of opioids. He underwent seven hours of emergency surgery, with doctors only giving him a 2 per cent chance of survival. After the surgery, he slipped into a two-week coma and spent a further five months in hospital, as well requiring a colostomy bag for nine months, and another 14 surgeries to repair the damage.

He also shared another of his near-death experiences at a rehab facility in Switzerland, where had been taking hydrocodone to treat his stomach pain before surgery. In the operating room, they had administered Propofol – a common IV medication used for induction and maintenance of general anaesthesia – but the two drugs interacted and caused him to enter five minutes of cardiac arrest. (Note: cardiac arrest is not the same as heart attack which is caused by a blockage to the blood flow. CA simply means the sudden loss of all heart activity.) They managed to resuscitate him, but broke eight ribs in the process, causing him to pull out of his role in the film Don’t Look Up, alongside Meryl Streep.

It is at this point in the book, where he asks you to temporarily pause reading/listening and time five minutes with a stopwatch to appreciate the gravity of how long it actually feels, because while it seems like a short amount of time for us in everyday life, when there is nothing happening – at all – it feels like an eternity.

He also shared that more recently, he was diagnosed was emphysema – a disease that involves damage to the lining of the lungs and the destruction of alveoli – as the result of his decades of smoking, to which doctors told him that if he did not quit, he would die.

And yet, this is not even the tip of the iceberg of everything that he had been through.

But, he was on the road to recovery. After 15 trips to rehab clinics and $9 million dollars later, in 2021, for the first time in his life, he was completely sober – no drink, no drugs, no alcohol, and no smoking. He was passionate about helping people, especially those with addictions, and even opened his own sober living facility – Perry House – in Malibu, overlooking the pier.

And yet, I wonder if he had any idea how much he helped those he didn’t know – who tuned in to the television and turned on Friends because they found comfort and joy in the loveable, awkward, and sarcastic character that was, and is, Chandler Bing.

Of course, as you’ll have read above, Matthew wanted to be remembered for more than simply being Chandler. And, while it is undoubtedly true that the majority of people will remember him for this iconic role, I think it is important to at least try to honour his wishes.

It is true that Matthew lived a troubled life. And yet, it is evident – not only from the handful of tributes below, but also from the tens of thousands of tributes being posted from every corner of the world by celebrities and fans alike – that he was also a kind, wonderful, decent, and generous human being. From the way he would interact and smile with fans who came up to him on the street, to his appearances in interviews – everyone who came into contact with him, has nothing but nice things to say. And isn’t that a beautiful way to be remembered?

I know that this is a hard time for all of us, but when you feel ready, please read/listen to his book. It’s heart-wrenching, but I am thankful that he got to speak so candidly about his life. I know that for many of us, watching Friends will never be the same again, and if I am being honest, a part of me is tempted to never watch it again because I fear it will make me too sad when I remember what we have lost.

But then, I think, Matthew’s whole purpose was about making people laugh and helping others. He lived for it. And if Friends does both of those things, then doesn’t that mean that as long as we’re watching, his purpose and legacy lives forever, within all of us?

The world is a little less funny without him in it, and I am devastated that he never got his happily ever after when he fought so hard to survive. But, I hope that after all these years, he finally has the peace he so desperately yearned for.

So, while I and the rest of the world sit quietly in our grief, I will also take this opportunity to say thank you to Matthew – for our lives simply would not have been the same without him. He was there for us, until the very end.

Matthew Langford Perry.
19th August 1969 – 28th October 2023.

Matthew Perry arriving at the 17 Again Premiere at Grauman’s Chinese Theater in Los Angeles, CA on April 14, 2009 © 2009 Kathy Hutchins / Hutchins Photo

See below for a list of some of Matthew’s achievements, acting credits, and awards/nominations:

He advocated for a rehabilitation-focused sentencing over prison terms for non-violent drug offenders.

  • He advocated for a rehabilitation-focused sentencing over prison terms for non-violent drug offenders.
  • In 2013, he received the Champion of Recovery Award from the White House for his advocacy efforts.
  • He used his book tour in 2022 to help destigmatize addiction and let others know they are not alone.
  • Was a a board member of the Ron Clark Academy, an alternative Atlanta middle school for low-income children.

Acting Credits:

  • 1988 | A Night in the Life of Jimmy Reardon
  • 1989 | She’s Out of Control
  • 1989 | Fat Man and Little Boy | Uncredited
  • 1994 | Getting In
  • 1997 | Fools Rush In
  • 1998 | Almost Heroes
  • 1999 | Three to Tango
  • 2000 | The Whole Nine Yards
  • 2000 | The Kid
  • 2002 | Serving Sara
  • 2004 | The Whole Ten Yards
  • 2007 | Numb
  • 2009 | Birds of America
  • 2009 | 17 Again
  • 1979 | 240-Robert | Episode: “Bank Job
  • 1983 | Not Necessarily the News | Episode: “Audrie in Love
  • 1985 | Charles in Charge | Episode: “The Wrong Guy
  • 1986 | Silver Spoons| Episode: “Rick Moves Out
  • 1987-88 | Second Chance/Boys Will Be Boys | 21 Episodes
  • 1988 | Dance Til’ Dawn | Television film
  • 1989 | Just the Ten of Us | Episode: “The Dinner Test
  • 1988 | Highway to Heaven | 2 episodes
  • 1989 | Empty Nest | Episode: “A Day in the Life
  • 1989 | Growing Pains | 3 episodes
  • 1990 | Sydney | Series regular; 13 episodes
  • 1990 | Who’s the Boss | Episode: “Roomies
  • 1990 | Call Me Anna | Television film
  • 1991 | Beverley Hills, 90210 | Episode: “April is the Cruelest Month
  • 1992 | Dream On | Episode: “To the Moon, Alex!
  • 1992 | Sibs | Episode: “What Makes Lily Run
  • 1993 | Deadly Relations | Television film
  • 1993 | Home Free | Series regular; 13 episodes
  • 1994 | Parallel Lives | Television film
  • 1994-2004 | Friends | Main role; 236 episodes
  • 1995 | Caroline in the City | Episode: “Caroline and the Folks
  • 1995 | The John Larroquette Show | Episode: “Rachel Redux
  • 1997 | Saturday Night Live | Episode: “Matthew Perry/Oasis
  • 2001 | The Simpsons | Episode: “Treehouse of Horror XII
  • 2002 | Ally McBeal | 2 episodes
  • 2003 | The West Wing | 3 episodes
  • 2004 | Scrubs | Episode: “My Unicorn
  • 2006 | The Ron Clark Story | Television film
  • 2006-2007 | Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip | Series regular; 21 episodes
  • 2011 | Children’s Hospital | Episode: “The Black Doctor
  • 2011 | Mr Sunshine | Series regular; 13 episodes
  • 2012-2013 | The Good Wife | 4 episodes
  • 2012-2013 | Go On | Series regular; 22 episodes
  • 2014 | Cougar Town | Episode: “Like a Diamond
  • 2014 | Playhouse Presents | Episode: “The Dog Thrower
  • 2014 | Web Therapy | 2 episodes
  • 2015-2017 | The Odd Couple | Series regular; 38 episodes
  • 2017 | The Kennedy’s: After Camelot | Television miniseries; 4 episodes
  • 2021 | Friends: The Reunion | HBO Max special

Awards and Nominations:

  • 2007 | Golden Globe Awards | Best Actor – Miniseries or Television Film | The Ron Clark Story
  • 2002 | Emmy Awards | Oustanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2003 | Emmy Awards | Outstanding Guest Actor in a Drama Series | The West Wing
  • 2004 | Emmy Awards | Outstanding Guest Actor in a Drama Series | The West Wing
  • 2007 | Emmy Awards | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Miniseries or Movie | The Ron Clark Story
  • 2021 | Emmy Awards | Outstanding Variety Special | Friends: The Reunion
  • 1996 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 1999 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2000 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2001 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2002 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2003 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2004 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series | Friends
  • 2007 | Screen Actors Guild Awards | Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a TV Movie/ Miniseries | The Ron Clark Story
  • 1996 | American Comedy Awards | Funniest Supporting Male Performer in a TV Series | Friends
  • 1998 | American Comedy Awards | Funniest Supporting Male Performer in a TV Series | Friends
  • 2013 | Huading Awards | Best Global Actor in a Television Series | Go On
  • 2002 | Nickelodeon Kids’ Choice Awards | Favourite TV Actor | Friends
  • 2016, 2017 | People’s Choice Awards | Favourite Comedic TV Actor
  • 2006 | Satellite Awards | Best Actor in a Series Drama | Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip
  • 2004 | Teen Choice Awards | Choice TV Actor – Comedy | Friends
  • 2000 | TV Guide Awards | Editor’s Choice | Friends
  • 2006 | TV Land Awards | Most Wonderful Wedding | Friends

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